tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015737272343810105.post8749019657583983072..comments2024-03-29T05:19:30.673-04:00Comments on The Grumpy Elf: Guild Loot DramaTheGrumpyElfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07621615711198405365noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015737272343810105.post-12127881942917991312011-11-23T19:02:15.795-05:002011-11-23T19:02:15.795-05:00Oddly enough I never had the chance to talk to him...Oddly enough I never had the chance to talk to him about anything.<br /><br />I got online and he was in a TotFW pug with 3 other guild mates. They had someone drop and asked me if I wanted to come. I said, no, I want to level my new hunter some.<br /><br />I was not privy to what was said in the raid as I was not there but an officer that was said he dropped group and then quit the guild.<br /><br />I had not even seen him or spoke to him since the incident. He did that all on his own.<br /><br />Apparently, it seems he wanted drama and when I did not confront him, it pissed him off even more.<br /><br />I did not kick him and I was willing to talk to him. He never gave me the chance.<br /><br />Not sure what happened, but when he cools down if he ever wants to talk to me I am up for it.TheGrumpyElfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07621615711198405365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015737272343810105.post-20633890608789852342011-11-23T16:54:26.535-05:002011-11-23T16:54:26.535-05:00I gave you officers the right to /gkick any indivi...I gave you officers the right to /gkick any individual as needed because I trust you folks to not use that power for grins and giggles. If you need to kick someone, do so. <br /><br />I have been out the last few days, so I managed to miss all this and as such, I only have your version of what went on, but you know what...that is all I need. You have done nothing to change my trust level in you, so I accept your story as a reasonably accurate accounting of what went on. Don't hesitate, if someone is making drama, advise them with a whisper to not do so anymore, and with continued drama, publicly in guild chat explain that drama is not allowed, it is a kickable offense, and that so and so is now gone. Remove all alts, and be done with it. <br /><br />I ain't gonna have my blood pressure raised on account of someone bitching unduly in guild chat. <br /><br />Also, even tho I missed out on my try at Majordomo Staghelm, congrats to one and all for getting him down. <br /><br />Anon, Grumpy's GLAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015737272343810105.post-68391818062466293742011-11-23T16:54:03.557-05:002011-11-23T16:54:03.557-05:00I agree. Talk to him first. You might be incorrect...I agree. Talk to him first. You might be incorrect that he is a teenage boy coming to the defense of a helpless female. In his mind, he might honestly believe that an aggressive personality person is taking advantage of a passive personality person, nothing to do with gender or anything like that. I know that sometimes people are just too nice or extremely reluctant to bring up things that they really should. For example, an old tank guildie of mine was the nicest person ever, and when tank loot would drop he would let others take it over him even though it was TANK LOOT, and we basically had to force him to take upgrades. <br /><br />Chances are, you are completely right. But let him explain why he feels the way he does first, before deciding you never want to group with him again and potentially causing more guild stress. Remember that while it's crystal clear to you, he doesn't have anywhere near the facts about your/her attendance etc, so it's quite possible that he looked at an isolated incident, thought it looked unfair, and simply stood up for a guildmate. It's possible that once you explain things, he'll go "ah, I see, I didn't know" and it'll be no big deal at all.Radeshttp://orcisharmyknife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9015737272343810105.post-90492954357778207202011-11-23T12:08:06.529-05:002011-11-23T12:08:06.529-05:00Some days, even with rules, people make drama. In ...Some days, even with rules, people make drama. In this cases, there is one thing to remember.<br /><br />You won the roll. As Raid Leader, your word is final.<br /><br />My only additional comment would be this: talk to him now, point him at this post, and explain to him why you are angry. Not grouping with him has the potential to just cause further drama.Moveable Presshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09142421045872583295noreply@blogger.com